Lessons, everybody
learns them. Some are definitely harder than others, but still from when we are
little to our old day’s lessons will always be learned. I remember lessons such
as tying my shoe; really I use to hate it… I would sit on the kitchen floor
until one of my older brothers helped me; but at last I did finally learn how.
I remember learning how to drive… let’s just put it this way always check to
make sure the car is in the gear you want… or you may end up over a cement
barrier… whoops. I remember learning how
to handle independent life when I moved away from college and I definitely
remember learning how to rearrange my life after receiving devastating news. As
I said some lessons are definitely harder than others. This past weekend probably one of the biggest
lessons I have learned yet, that really just hit home.
The
lesson all started with a phone call. I of all people know a simple phone call
can change your life. Apparently, I needed to learn this lesson once more. Anyway, I get a phone call and by the end of
the day I had I think about twenty of them, I had close to fifty text messages
all saying the same stuff. Repeat, repeat, repeat… apparently this person didn’t
think what they were saying was going in loud n clear but trust me it was. I won’t go into detail simply because I don’t
want too. All that needs to be said is
this person didn’t care who they hurt as long as they got what they wanted in
the end… they went after a good thing and went to extravagant measures to ruin
it. Now the lesson I had to learn was a bit of a hard one for me. This lesson
was trusting someone completely no questions asked, just simply giving them the
power to tell me the truth. Then
learning to forgive no questions asked. This by far… was just plain out hard. Let me tell you, it was an extremely long day
full of long talks, stomach aches, ringing phones and pure emotion of every
kind. In the end I got the truth, I’m
not going to say it wasn’t hard because it was. I’m not going to say the person
who kept trying to ruin a good thing is going to stop, because truth be told I
don’t think they will. I will say that when you care about someone you do
whatever it takes you don’t walk away, I will say I have the best support
system in the entire world because I do, I will say this person who doesn’t
care about anyone but themselves has a long road ahead of them and I will
definitely say that I am going to walk to hell n back before this person breaks
me.
Lessons,
we all need to learn them. We learn to
trust, we learn to love, we learn to forgive, we learn what is wrong and what
is right… we just learn. Needless to say this weekend I learned a big lesson in
the game of love. What have you learned lately?
